Sorry, I don't mean to hold the my vacation recap hostage! I just can't seem to get it written! So much to say, so many pictures to share, and not enough time to get it done.
So I promise, promise, promise that I will finish it this weekend and have it up on Monday.
Meanwhile, I got this today from my friend Penny, and I thought it was worth sharing. Enjoy, and hang in there with me, our tour of Vegas is coming soon!
Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.
I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible.
How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn't suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does the word 'refrigeration' mean nothing to you?
How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched 'Jeopardy' on television?
I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, 'How about going to lunch in a half hour?' She would gas up and stammer, 'I can't. I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late breakfast, it looks like rain.' And my personal favorite: 'It's Monday.' She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together.
Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect!
We'll go back and visit the grandparents when we get the baby toilet-trained. We'll entertain when we replace the living-room carpet. We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.
Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of 'I'm going to,' 'I plan on,' and 'Someday, when things are settled down a bit.'
When anyone calls my 'seize the moment' friend, she is open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes, and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of roller blades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord..
My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It's just that I might as well apply it directly to my stomach with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process The other day, I stopped the car and bought a double dip. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home , I would have died happy.
Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to.....not something on your SHOULD DO list. If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting?
Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I posted this.
Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round or listened to the rain lapping on the ground? Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the fading night? Do you run through each day on the fly? When you ask 'How are you?', do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores running through your head? Ever told your child, 'We'll do it tomorrow.' And in your haste, not see his sorrow? Ever lost touch? Let a good friendship die? Just call to say 'Hi?
When you worry and hurry through your day, it is like an unopened gift....Thrown away..... Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over.
To those who are reading this... I cherish our friendship and appreciate all you do.
'Life may not be the party we hoped for... But while we are here we might as well dance.'
Have a great weekend. Pack for Vegas on Monday.
13 comments:
welcome back, Julie!
~AM
Carpe diem!
Easy for me to say since I'm sitting here looking at blogs instead of going outside and dancing.
Waitin' on Vegas.Although if it means anything, I have been home from Cancun for two weeks and still haven't posted my story!
Okay, for those of you who can't wait, here's the short scoop on Julie's Vegas adventure.
It's simple: We got up, took a morning run, went to church, came back and did some chores around the house, baked a pie, did some needlepoint on the balcony, and at night we sat in my living room and watched some episodes of Guiding Light. Yes, Julie watches Guiding Light now.
And that's about it. That's what Julie's going to post on Monday. And she's going to tell you that I'm much better looking in real life. Yeah, that's it.
Great Post..can't wait till Monday!
20 or so years ago, my family decided to go on an outing. We couldn't fit in a single car. We were one seat short. We said OK, let's take 2 cars. My grandmother thought it was so wasteful to take 2 cars that she offered to stay home and not go. No matter how much we insisted she wouldn't go. Well, she passed away 6 months later. That would have been our last outing together.
Yep, came to this realization 3 years ago and promply began traveling even if it meant going alone. I felt if I waited for someone to go with me I might never go.
My favorite saying: I don't want to be a passenger in my own life!
Ireland, yes baby. And you may fing your God;)
Absolutely fabulous post! Thanks for sharing and welcome back!
Julie what a fantastic blog. It brought tears to my eyes. I thought I was following you but I guess not. I'm going to add you now.
That is a great post. I now forgive myself for the entire bag of yogurt covered pretzels I just ate. Thank you:) Must go call the Granny!
you suck...not like you are doing anything else....
I love you too my hooker! I won't hold my breath k...
muwah, love ya girl
I just discovered your blog. I am new to the blogging world. I live in Las Vegas and wished I'd known you were coming. I enjoy your writing and would've loved to shown you parts of the city only locals know about. I look forward to reading about your Sin City adventures.
Laughing at Linda's recap, can't wait to see yours so I can compare LOL
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